self – Olutolani

Boundaries

by OlutolaniWriting 28/07/202628/07/2026No Comments

I am facing issues around boundaries at the moment, and I am observing that I don’t really know what a personal boundary is. I didn’t develop the concept as a child, and as a consequence I have always been more concerned with the will and expectations of the other person rather than my own needs. …

My Voice

by OlutolaniWriting 21/03/202519/09/2025Comments are Disabled

I found my voice at the end of a pen,and I’m afraid of the words it has to say.I don’t understand the source that flows through them.I want to shoo them awaylike ducklings scattering from their mother’s sideas a bike zips by on the tow path. How do I know if what I sayhas any …